Saturday, June 25, 2011

Saturday Story from Siva (51): Story of a Musician and The Perception of His Talent by People

Hi,
Good morning! It’s all about perceptions. It’s my perception of myself, your perception of myself, my perception of your perception of myself, my perception of your perception of others’ perception of myself. Likewise, it is perception about people, objects, situations, results, actions, and anything and everything, we all think about. It is how we perceive the elements of a situation, analyse them, explore alternatives, and decide on the line of action that determines our success. It is the perception that makes us do what we do. Let me share with you this week a true story that helps us appreciate the value of perception better. Here it is….
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Story of a Musician and The Perception of His Talent by People
Source: Internet info (http://www.persian.asia/text/story-on-perception)
A man sat at a metro station in Washington DC and started to play the violin; He  played six Bach pieces for about 45 minutes. During that time, thousands of people went through the station, most of them on their way to work. Three minutes went by and a middle aged man noticed there was musician playing. He slowed his pace and stopped for a few seconds and then hurried up to meet his schedule.
A minute later, the violinist received his first dollar tip: a woman threw the money in the till and without stopping continued to walk. A few minutes later, someone leaned against the wall to listen to him, but the man looked at his watch and started
to walk again. Clearly he was late for work. The one who paid the most attention was a 3 year old boy. His mother tagged him along, hurried but the kid stopped to look at the violinist. Finally the mother pushed hard and the child continued to walk turning his head all the time. In the 45 minutes the musician played, only 6 people stopped and stayed for a while. About 20 gave him money but continued to walk their normal pace. He collected in total $32. When he finished playing and silence took over, no one noticed it. No one applauded, nor was there any  recognition.

No one knew this, but the violinist was Joshua Bell, one of the best musicians in the world. He played one of the most  intricate pieces ever written with a violin worth 3.5 million dollars. No one cared for it. But, two days before his playing in the subway, Joshua Bell’s concert was sold out at a theatre in Boston and the seat fee averaged  $100. Joshua Bell playing incognito in the metro station was organized by the Washington Post as part of an social experiment about perception, taste and priorities of people.
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Yes, we value things based on how we perceive of them. Yes, perceptions are very important. Successful people have a good knack of perceiving about themselves and their people’s perspectives clearly. They are aware that it is just perceptions and that the perceptions of people involved might not necessarily be same about the same subject, and also that they might vary from time to time. And it is always possible that others’ perceptions could throw more light on the situation than their own perception. It is when we put ourselves in the other person’s shoes, we will be able to appreciate the situation better.
The Best for you always,
Siva

Saturday, June 18, 2011

Saturday Story from Siva (50): The true Story of Eklund Mark, the Former Catholic School Student Who Died in Vietnam

Hi,
Good morning! It’s Saturday again. And, the 50th Saturday story comes to you. It has been a pleasure preparing the stories and mailing them to you and also posting on my blog. It has helped me learn so much in the process. The stories I share with you have now become a regular part of my speeches too helping me enthral my audience better. You have been so kind and nice to be on my mailing list, to mail me your occasional comments, and also to advise me to add your friends and relatives to the list. Thank you very much for your kind encouragement. This week, I would like to share with you a true story that demonstrates power of the words we speak of others...the story of Eklund Mark.....
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Story of Eklund Mark, the Former Catholic School Student Who Died in Vietnam
An excerpt from the article, “All Good Things” by Sister Helen P. Mrosla
Sister Helen Mrosla was a maths teacher at St Mary’s School in Morris, Minnesota. In 1965, one Friday she had her class of 34 students including Eklund Mark do an interesting exercise. She asked each student to take a sheet of paper, write the names of all other students on it, and also to think the nicest thing they could say about each of their classmates and write it down. That Saturday, she wrote down the name of each student on a separate sheet of paper, and listed on it what everyone else had said about that individual. Next Monday, she gave each student his or her list.
Several years later, the teacher got a word that Mark Eklund had died in Vietnam and she was asked to attend his funeral.  There, one of the soldiers asked her, “Are you Mark’s math teacher? He talked about you a lot.” Before she left the place, Mark’s father and mother met her. James Eklund, his father, pulled out gently from the wallet used by Mark two worn pieces of notebook paper that had obviously been taped, folded, and refolded many times, and said, “We want to show you something. They found this with Mark always. We thought you might recognize it.” She immediately know that the papers were the ones on which she listed all the good things each of Mark’s classmates had said about him. “Thank you so much for doing that,” Mark’s mother said. “As you can see, Mark treasured it.”
A few of Mark’s classmates who attended the funeral also met her. They all said that they too saved their lists. While one said that he kept it in the top drawer of his desk at home, others said they kept it in wedding album, diary, pocketbook, etc., One of them took out her wallet and showed her worn and fizzled list and said, “I carry this with me at all times.”
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How nice it is to read good things about what people have to say about us! I must tell you I have a habit of storing all the messages of appreciation and praise I receive in a folder on my computer, “Good ones”. I do take time to take a look at them once in a while. And that is highly inspiring for me to keep moving forward and staying committed to the chosen goal in life. I also keep advising my children and others to open a note book and call it, “Book of good ones” and to write in it whenever they receive a pat on the back, or whenever they perform well and do something they feel proud of. It is always a right time to say a genuine compliment to others at home or in office.
The Best for you always,
With love and regards,
Siva
value4value@gmail.com

Saturday, June 11, 2011

Saturday Story from Siva (49): Story of Erika Vohman and Her Mission of Changing Lives with Maya Nut

Hi,
Good morning! Efforts for bringing about livelihood improvement and economic development have more often been questioned for their deleterious effects on environment. I would like to share with you this week the story of a lady who proved that it is possible to change the quality of lives of people while aiding rain forests at the same time. To learn more about it, pls read further….
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Story of Erika Vohman and Her Mission of Changing Lives with Maya Nut
Source: Internet info ( http://articles.cnn.com/2009-04-16/tech/cnnheroes.erika.vohman_1_nut-rain-forest-hearty-foods?_s=PM:TECH )
erika.vohmanErika Vohman is a 45-year old American biologist who first encountered the Maya Nut tree while visiting rural Guatemala a decade ago. An indigenous colleague told her of this native resource that it was once an essential food staple of his Mayan ancestors, but is now totally forgotten. Maya Nut is produced by a large tropical rain forest tree, the Brosimum alicastrum. That colleague also prepared a Maya nut soup for Vohman and she found it delicious.
Having watched impoverished Guatemalan communities clear rain forests to plant food, it struck Vohman that the key for uplifting Central American communities was to help them return to their roots. She immediately decided that she could help these populations make the most of Maya nut -- a resource that didn't require forest destruction for planting. In 2001, Vohman created The Equilibrium Fund to help alleviate poverty, malnutrition and deforestation by teaching communities about their native Maya nut forests.
With one tree able to produce as much as 400 pounds of food a year, using the Maya nut prevents rain forest clear-cutting to harvest other foods and increases populations' food supplies. Dried, the Maya nut can be stored for up to five years -- a lifeline for regions with frequent drought. The Maya nut has high levels of nutrients including protein, calcium, fiber, iron and vitamins A, E, C and B. Erika has been conducting training workshops in several Central American countries on how to harvest, prepare, and cook or dry the prolific seeds into tasty, hearty foods. People who were once living right there, in extreme poverty, not even eating more than one meal a day, though there's Maya nut lying all around, now know how to feed their communities year-round with the Maya Nut. There are now more than 700 communities where “The Maya Nut Revolution” as it has come to be known, has taken hold. The quality of lives of these people changed, and rain forests too remained safe and conserved
Erika Vohman is now considered a heroine for her fight to empower the women of Central America. Her initiative and efforts over the last one decade in empowering the women with knowledge has inspired many mothers in the region to inspire their daughters, passing along the torch to the next generation of young women who will perpetuate this movement.
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Knowledge is power. That’s what Erika tried doing by educating women and empowering them to be the source of strength and nourishment. She made a difference by helping people with right knowledge to help themselves. Is there a way by which we too could help the rural people by empowering them with the right knowledge so that they too could help themselves better? Ideas are welcome.
To learn more about Erika and her mission, pls visit her website: http://mayanutinstitute.org/
The Best for you always,
With love and regards,
Siva
value4value@gmail.com

Saturday, June 4, 2011

Saturday Story from Siva (48): Story of Dialysis Defying Shad Ireland and the Promise He Made to Himself

Hi,
Good morning. Hope you had a great week. Good health is essential for a happy living. And it is necessary for everyone to give due importance to what one does towards obtaining and maintaining physical fitness. It is something which one ought to work for and not to expect to get it as a birth right. What if one is already going through an ailment, be it diabetes, or high blood pressure, or kidney failure or Arthritis? Thought I would share with you this week the story of Mr. Shad Ireland who is something of a medical marvel and a walking improbability. Here it goes....
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Story of Dialysis Defying Shad Ireland and The Promise He Made to Himself
Source: Internet info (http://abcnews.go.com/Health/HeartHealth/story?id=8262651&page=1 )
shad ireland_picShad Ireland was born with healthy kidneys in May, 1972. Almost exactly eleven years later, in May, 1983, he and his mother got the news that those kidneys were now diseased. Shad eventually underwent two transplant operations. The first kidney transplant, at age 18, lasted for three years. The second transplant was unsuccessful. He was told he would probably only live until he was 25.
Then one day in 1993, he saw on TV a race he’d not seen before – a triathlon. He was captivated by the strength and determination the contestants in this difficult race exhibited and told his mother he would someday compete in that race. The road to meeting that goal wasn’t straight or easy. When he decided to do the triathlon, his biceps were too small, he could not walk two minutes on a treadmill, and he couldn’t pick up even 10 pounds. He promised himself that he would go for a workout and gain the physical fitness. He went to a gym. Within a year, he gained 42 pounds of muscle. In 2004, Shad finished his first triathlon – the world famous Ironman – in Lake Placid, New York. He was the first dialysis patient to ever do so. By beating the astronomical odds against him through sheer guts and perseverance, he became a swimming, biking and running symbol of courage and hope in the face of a serious health disorder.
Doctors predicted Shad would not live six months in the 1990s. But in 2009, at the age of 37, he biked from California to the steps of the U.S. Capital to draw attention to the 500,000 people with kidney failure living on dialysis in the US. Shad continues to compete. Ireland's physical feat might seem impossible to many, but doctors want their dialysis patients to think the opposite. It’s possible. It all started with a promise he made to himself.
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Is pressure of targets and the consequent heavy work load getting the better of us, making us tired, and leaving us with no time and energy for a physical fitness regime? Is there a solution in the problem itself? Could a physical fitness workout or a simple a morning walk or a pranayama for 30 minutes right in the home itself help us get the required energy to be able to run around more, achieve our targets better, and also lead a healthy and happy life? Yes, it requires a promise to oneself and a commitment to one’s own physical fitness. Is today a great day to make that promise? Why not?
The best for you always,
With love and regards,
Siva
value4value@gmail.com

Friday, June 3, 2011

‘Law of Attraction’ in force: Sharing a positive experience

Law-of-Attractionblo2_picTo continue the discussion from my last blog post on how this law of attraction works, I would like to share with you another experience of mine. This time, though, the power of positive thoughts. Recently I was returning from Aurangabad after a training program. There was a group of about 10 including me and some of the trainees to catch the same train to travel to Hyderabad. There was a delay in checking out of the hotel by some of the members, and I found that it was time for me to leave the hotel quickly so that I could reach the station on time and be able to board the train. By the time the driver of the vehicle was able to get another 4 members to come along it took some more time, and I realized that we would be reaching the station only after the scheduled arrival of the train. I started thinking about my journey and focusing consciously on my thoughts, “The train would arrive late today. I would have sufficient time to board the train. Even others who are left behind us would also be able to reach the station before the train arrives. We will all travel by this train tonight. And so on...” Believe it or not, the train was late that day by 40 minutes, and we had enough of time even to munch something for our dinner, though we arrived at the station 10 minutes after the regular departure time. I told myself, “The law of attraction works.”
The challenge however is how NOT to focus on ‘negative outcomes’. We don’t want certain things to happen in our lives, but we keep thinking that they might happen. And thus, we attract them into our life, knowingly or unknowingly. To realize whether this is true or not, one should dig deep into one’s own thought processes.
I am sure all of you too have had similar type of experiences in life. It would be great to hear from you too your own experiences of positive or negative thoughts and how you have experienced the ‘Law of Attraction” in your life. You can mail me at value4value@gmail.com
To learn more about ‘Law of Attraction’ you could read the book, ‘The Secret’ by Rhonda Byrne and also browse her website: www.thesecret.tv
With love and regards,
Siva
value4value@gmail.com

Thursday, June 2, 2011

‘Law of Attraction’ in force: A personal experience in life

law_of_attraction_blog picYesterday morning, I was on my way to a nearby place to check and confirm the examination centre across the road where my son would be writing his examination. I was to cross a busy road, and the thoughts that were going through my mind were a bit negative at that time, and I was, of course, conscious of them. I am carrying my son’s examination admit card in my hand. What would happen if some vehicle hits me while I cross the road, and in the process, if the admit card is lost, my son would not be able to write his exam. Should I have left the card at my home with my son, and simply noted the particulars required by for making the check? Let me be careful as I cross the road. Oh Gosh! Why am I allowing these negative thoughts? I should not be attracting the unwanted events this way.”
With these thoughts lingering in my mind, I crossed the road safely, checked for the centre, and confirmed it. Soon after, I started returning home from there. I was crossing the same road back again. With no vehicles close by, I was rushing forward, and all of a sudden a motorist coming from the ‘wrong side of the road’ hit me from my left side. I fell down with a shock, and the motorist too fell down. He was feeling sorry for his mistake. I bruised my right arm slightly with a scratch and a few drops of blood that came out. As I fell, I hit the ground with both of my knees. I did not realize that they were hurt at that time as I was able to stand up and move them freely. But they too bore the brunt, but not with any sprains or fractures. Lucky enough to escape with minor injuries!
As I reached home and shared the news of the accident with my family, my son shared with us the thoughts that went through his mind as I walked out of the house. Since morning dad was hurting himself here and there hitting something or the other in the home, I wish he would come home safe without meeting any accidents on the road.” I told my wife, “Look, both he and I were thinking of an accident. Though we wished that it would not and should not happen, our thoughts were around an accident. The ‘Law of Attraction’ works.”
Remembered the magic of “Law of Attraction” read from Rhonda Byrne’s book, The Secret. Our thoughts have a magnetic force, and they attract what we focus on.
The law of attraction doesn’t compute “don’t” or “not” or “no” or any other words of negation. The law of attraction is giving you what you are thinking about-period      - Rhonda Byrne
Yesterday’s event in my life is a proof again that we ought to be consciously thinking positive thoughts in order to attract positive results in our life. BY all means, we should avoid negative thoughts even if they mean positive. For example, my thoughts of yesterday could have been, “I would return home safe by all means, and the roads are safe, and I shall take best care of myself to return home safe.” With them instead of those I had, I am sure I would have returned home safe yesterday.
Wishing safety and SUCCESS for everyone,
With love and regards,
Siva